If you’re willing to break up over an ice sculpture, you guys should absolutely not get married. What the hell are you going with this? Because who gets to choose the ice sculpture, who should take out the trash, who has to stay home and make the mini pizzas– that’s the little stuff. What are you gonna do when the big stuff comes along? What are you gonna do when a tornado hits your house, or you have problems with your kids, or one of you gets cancer? At some point, the crap is going to hit the fan, and that is why now, before you make the commitment, you have to ask yourself, is that person in bed next to you worth the trouble? Do you love him…or her so much that no disease, no disaster could possibly pull you apart?